Monday, January 19, 2009

2 AM Visitors

That's right! At about 2am we received a knock at our door. Who could possibly knocking on our door at two in the morning!?!?!?! Well, believe it or not, it was the Redlands Police Department! Someone in our apartment complex called the police because there was a HUGE disturbance coming from our apartment. What was that disturbance, you ask? Well, that would be a little 9-year old boy that goes by the name of Tyler.

So, here's the story....
If you can believe it, this ALL started on Monday morning. I dropped Tyler off at school at 7:40am (school starts at 7:45am) and Tyler did not finally get to his class until almost 8:30am!! What was Tyler doing during this whole time, you may be asking? Well, he went throughout the campus running in and out of other teachers' classes, he lied to pretty much everyone he came across that morning, he pushed a kid down on the way to the cafeteria, he went and disturbed the librarian, was seen briefly going in to the custodian's closet, and when his teacher caught up with him finally he was in the nurse's office with an ice pack on his wrist "claiming" that his wrist was hurting (totally a lie). And that is the short version of that morning. As a result of this morning, Tyler has had a massive amount of homework. Included in the homework assignments were about eight apology letters that Tyler had to write for everyone that he disrupted that morning. Well, all week Tyler has been absolutely refusing to write these apology letters. So, when we got to the weekend, he has not been able to do anything except sit at his desk writing his letters. The only time he was allowed to come out of his room was to eat meals or go to the bathroom. He had this plan that he would just sit there not working until about 7pm every night and hope that he could just ask to go to sleep and and then he would be done with it. Well, every night (since Friday) we have told him that he can not go to sleep until he finishes the letter that he was working on. Well, that's when the screaming would start. He would scream and yell and tantrum that we would just eventually let him go to sleep. On Friday night, he was so loud that people were actually yelling at him through the window to "Shut Up!!". He fought it until about 10:30 that night and then wrote his letter. On Saturday we didn't hear anything from the neighbors even though he was just as loud. This time he fought it until about midnight before writing his letter. Then last night (Sunday) Tyler battled until 2am. And the ONLY reason he stopped at that time was because the police knocked on our door. I guess the neighbors skipped telling him to "Shut up" and just went straight to calling the police. But for the rest of the time he did not make a noise and just finished his letter. So, that is pretty much how our night went. The sad part is that all the screaming and crying was absolutely fake. I video taped it but have debated about putting it on my blog because it's pretty sad how far he will go to get what he wants. So, PLEASE keep us in your prayers! We NEED it!!

4 comments:

Martita said...

Let's meet and talk. Call me or email me some good times for you. We can coordinate something around Rachel's nap time.

love,

Martita

T said...

Holy Crap. That sounds WAY fun! Awesome life of a former foster, eh?

Too bad for the neighbors though. I woulda come pounding on your door and sat with my big husband who could kill someone just by looking at them and waited for Ty Ty to finish his letters.

What did the cops say? And sadly enough, I want to see the video. After awhile it does get kind of humorous the lengths they take to try to pull it off and be convincing.

And, we need to do the headshots this week. Maybe Thursday? My week is kinda crazy, but I will give you a text when I know for sure.

Good luck with everything. I'm praying for you! And if I had money, I'd totally have you come wash my car or something!

Jason and Heather said...

I'm glad you guys stuck to your guns and didn't let him get away with it. We need more parents like that. We're praying for you!

Anonymous said...

Hey girl, I am so sorry that you guys are going thru that maybe he is just pushing you trying to see if you guys really do love him or are you going to get tired and send him away like everyone else has. I don't know but maybe. Hang in there I will be praying for you. Love you guys!